Questions......

Wants to know what is with boys?? I am supposedly in a relationship, but after constant contact in the first 2 weeks, it seems to have waned to non-existence. I should explain that this is currently a long distance relationship. Communication by text, actual talking on the phone and chat on the computer. Although it seems like I haven't actually talked to him much. Am frustrated by this greatly. Am trying not to be needy, as it seems as soon as the word/role 'girlfriend' is imposed on me, I turn into this needy female! I can't understand it, and it's probably the reason why I haven't engaged in a "real" relationship for quite some time. Although this relationship thing goes both ways. He's not letting me in on his plans, but seems to think I'll be happy to go along with it when he chooses to let me know. He also gets crappy when I don't answer his text immediately, but it seems he doesn't apply the same feeling to my messages. Why is it that I let this happen? Why do I capitulate? Am I that desperate not to be alone?